Men And Women

Have you ever read the book, 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus'? Personally, I have never read it, but the idea of the book is palpable through the title alone. The title suggests that men and women are disparate individuals from different planets. Their physical appearance, thoughts, perception towards a matter are worlds apart. The only mutual thing we share are that both of are human beings. Why are men and women so different? Does the difference benefit us from any way? Most importantly, how is it possible that individuals from different 'planets' are able to build up chemistry in the science of love? Does it suggest that even the most uncommon of things are compatible? I'm no expert, nor am I a professor, but this is my perception concerning this matter.

Before you read, I have to clarify some things. I AM NOT A SEXIST, I'm just giving my views.

First off, I don't really think that men and women are really that different. We both have similar body structure and organs. Well, mostly... Except the fact that men and women possess unlike reproductive organs and women have "inflated" chests... Besides that, i think that men and women are actually quiet similar. The question surfaces when the actions, thoughts and opinions of both individuals are concerned. Why do girls and guys act and react differently? From my point of view, girls act upon intuition. They claim to have a mysterious ability that enables them to sense which action, opinion, person, etc. is right or the better claim. Girls contemplate before committing a particular action and end up concerning themselves with things that will never affect their lives. They normally consult with their closest friends and ask their opinions(no offense, but mostly rubbish advice) before executing their actions. Girls calculate their actions, hoping for lower percentage of risks and a higher chance of success. Guys, on the other hand, act upon instinct. They will do what they perceive as right and will hold on to their principle or belief even when proven wrong. Girls will tend to think that guys are dumb to believe in something that is wrong and inform them that they are mistaken. But guys, being stubborn, will not accept the fact that they are wrong and although sometimes, some guys pretend to be thankful for being corrected, they are actually raging inside. Guys do not like to be told they are wrong, nor do they like to be told what to do. That's a fact that has remained unchanged despite the perpetuity of time. Guys do not hesitate in performing an action. They do not pollute their minds with unnecessary things. They act irrationally at times but that's just another trait of a guy.

Why do girls think differently from a guy? Guys are simple and plain easy to read. They are straightforward and have nothing to hide. They do not have mixed thoughts concerning a matter nor do they try to conceal the truth, which makes them quiet predictable. Girls tend to over-contemplate a matter and bombard their mind with endless thoughts and unnecessary problems till they can't stand it. They think of all the myriad possibilities and make things more convoluted. Hence the dilemma. Girls will not understand how a guy thinks that way and guys will not understand how a girl thinks. Guys are simpler, whereas girls are more complicated. Based on my point of view, i think that girls can be smarter than guys, if they think in a proper manner. Guys will open a box and see the contents with satisfaction, girls will rummage through every object in the box until they are content with their findings.

Why are guys and girls so different? I do not really see the difference between a guy and a girl, but I have to agree on the fact that they are not the same. Could it be that the menstrual cycle girls experience provides them a different approach whenever they encounter a problem? They get occasional mood swings and edgy, as though riding a roller coaster on tracks build by emotions, occasionally going up before plummeting down. Guys are in control of their emotions as though driving a car on a never ending smooth tarmac road with no bumps and no potholes. Could it be that the hormones cursing through the body system of both individuals contribute to the fact they are so disparate? I'll go for the hormone theory, it seems more palatable. But anything is possible..

Now, we arrive on the similarity that both guys and girls share. Guys are attracted to girls almost as much as girls are attracted to guys( Excluding the homosexuals)... It's amazing how the two sexes from different planets can be attracted to one another. It's simply unfathomable. For example, the unlike poles of a magnet attract. They permeate a strong attraction force that binds the two poles together. Similarly for both guys and girls, a strong bond called love is formed when they are both attracted to one another. As we all know, fire and water don't mix, how is it possible that guys and girls are compatible if they are so different? Whatever the answer is, I'm glad that this world is inhibited by both sexes. It brings diversity. Maybe that's why guys and girls are attracted to one another. They are so bored of being around people with the same genders, that they look for some diversity. Guys will be intrigued and mesmerized by girls and girls will be attracted and be amazed by guys. This circle will continue on until one day everyone turns to a homo. Hopefully, that day will never come... I'd like to thank the girls that are ridiculously different than guys for bringing contrast and shedding some light to the guys' lives. Don't ever change and always be yourselves.